Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Otterpup joins us as we get uncharacteristically serious and imbue or sex podcast with political meaning. We do a post-inauguration debrief and talk about how the Victator got the wind knocked out of her, Gayle got frenzied, and Otterpup decided he’s not a centrist after all, while his parents stepped up guns-a-blazing to take a stand for gay rights, Gayle’s pessimism, if the Trump presidency is validating bigotry and shaking some people out of their comfortable belief in prograss, Also: Gayle and Otterpup come out as an immigrants, an unexpected uptick in Hong Kong listeners, and why we want to keep talking about butt-plug sizes and the finer points of gender identity despite it all.
Recorded on a porch in the Lowcountry, in which NuBritt and the Victator come together again to discuss their vaginas, how femme is not equal to sub, why the size of your pussy and labia have nothing to do with how much sex you’ve had, NuBritt’s hermit ways and how she once broke a bed, moving in together on the first date, edging, that time the Victator got the orgasm yips, and most importantly: they both finally learn where pussy lubrication comes from.
Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in a more innocent time, before the election — in which Dusty and Max join as we talk about male bisexuality, if it’s more ok for ladies to be bi, if dicks rule everything, if men lose more privilege than women by coming out, Prince, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, and why hair metal was actually macho, how the AIDS epidemic put an end to speedos, man-boy love, ancient Greece, Berlin in the ‘30s, passing and not passing, if everything is RuPaul’s fault, and why dating apps are the place to be open about wanting to be shit on. Plus: Don’t forget to like us on Facebook.
Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Rina from Indulgence Boutique joins us as we discuss sex toys, the Victator’s moment with Dr. Chris Donahue, penis oriented sex-toy company TENGA‘s study “The United States of Masturbation,” notions of masculinity as a barrier to cis-male use of toys, Ms. Mayness’ trunk full of toys, the lack of friendly sex toy stores outside of major cities, how timing is everything when introducing toys to partners, checking that ego, Kegel detectors, orgasm noises (or lack thereof), ease of orgasms as baller status, and a blow-job hack for the deep-throat-averse. PLUS: a very special appearance from the KPISS landlord.
Recorded not-so-live in Gale’s living room, in which Vintage Britt joins us as we discuss if there is a cultural disconnect when it comes to lesbians and the eggplant emoji, the Victator’s and Vintage Britt’s “D reset button”, chasing the ick, times we don’t want to have sex, why guy-on-guy porn is how Gale knows she’ll never be 100 percent lez, which is better for your sex life: freelancing or office work, which came first: the chicken or the D, what lady doesn’t like gangbang porn, Vintage Britt and her same sex lover’s epic celebrity fan fiction pursuits, and remember: don’t fuck Donald Trump!
Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Lucy joins us as we discuss sex in long-term relationships, “givin’ out the fake cellphone and name,” defining “relationships” outside of exclusivity, when sex plummets off the cliff of priorities, sex frequency, how Gale needs sex ALL THE TIME, how emotional distance can get you stuck in the lust zone, and how sex is sometimes (shocker!) better in LTRs, the Victator gets sappy in her PMS, stress as a lady-boner killer vs. sex as stress relief, the Octopussy, masturbation and cohabitation, cumming standing up, saving your orgasms, and what the hell “multiple orgasms” really means.
Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we’re joined by Lia, the founder of a nearly 1800 person strong online queer cruising group and Greta Narbo, sex party enthusiast and data wonk, as in the wake of the Pulse shooting in Orlando we discuss safer spaces and how — if at all — they can be maintained, what “queer” means when the number of groups under the umbrella seems to be forever growing (is the umbrella contextual?), how picking fights on social media is a great way to blow off steam, sex fantasies on the elliptical, solidarity vs. butthurt and how we all fuck up, plus Lia cruises our listeners. Remember: Don’t be the same kind of asshole twice!
In celebration of our one year anniversary, we’ve put together our favorite moments so far. Part two: from our last six episodes, in which the Victator and Isaac discuss vulnerability in dating, transitioning, and life, Jax reveals the true meaning of Jaxism, Robbyn and Isaac talk about sex after body changes, the Victator and Jax consider how farting may equal intimacy, we explore getting pregnant from porta potties, and we touch on “totally okay” incest situations. NEW EPISODES COMING SOON.
Isaac Fornarola, former LLiNYC cohost, recently said: “All I can think of are the victim’s last words in a text to his mother: ‘He’s in the bathroom with us.’
Is this not the summary of our year in this fight for equality?
Turns out cis straights and queers have the same nightmare. ‘He’s in the bathroom with us.’ The difference is that ours comes true.”
We at Livin’ and Lovin’ in NYC are heartbroken by the massacre at Pulse in Orlando. Our hearts go out to the victims’ loved ones, the LGBTQ+ community, the queer Puerto Rican community, the queer Latinx community, queer people of color, and the people of Orlando.
In celebration of our one year anniversary, we’ve put together our favorite moments so far. Part one: from our first six episodes, in which we introduce ourselves and tell you not to take our advice, the Victator discusses her homoflexible love for George Costanza, we discuss the SCOTUS ruling for marriage equality, our kpiss.fm station head tells the tale of tinderBNB, we describe a new way of thinking about cunnilingus, NuBritt recounts her sexy Italian adventure, Isaac describes his transition and no longer accepting what’s “fine,” and the Victator shamelessly hits on a guest. Part two will be up next week. NEW EPISODES COMING SOON.