Episode 14 – Sex in Long-Term Relationships

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Lucy joins us as we discuss sex in long-term relationships, “givin’ out the fake cellphone and name,” defining “relationships” outside of exclusivity, when sex plummets off the cliff of priorities, sex frequency, how Gale needs sex ALL THE TIME, how emotional distance can get you stuck in the lust zone, and how sex is sometimes (shocker!) better in LTRs, the Victator gets sappy in her PMS, stress as a lady-boner killer vs. sex as stress relief, the Octopussy, masturbation and cohabitation, cumming standing up, saving your orgasms, and what the hell “multiple orgasms” really means.

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Episode 14 – Sex in Long-Term Relationships

Episode 13: Cruising

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we’re joined by Lia, the founder of a nearly 1800 person strong online queer cruising group and Greta Narbo, sex party enthusiast and data wonk, as in the wake of the Pulse shooting in Orlando we discuss safer spaces and how — if at all — they can be maintained, what “queer” means when the number of groups under the umbrella seems to be forever growing (is the umbrella contextual?), how picking fights on social media is a great way to blow off steam, sex fantasies on the elliptical, solidarity vs. butthurt and how we all fuck up, plus Lia cruises our listeners. Remember: Don’t be the same kind of asshole twice!

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Episode 13: Cruising

Best of Year One: Part Two

In celebration of our one year anniversary, we’ve put together our favorite moments so far. Part two: from our last six episodes, in which the Victator and Isaac discuss vulnerability in dating, transitioning, and life, Jax reveals the true meaning of Jaxism, Robbyn and Isaac talk about sex after body changes, the Victator and Jax consider how farting may equal intimacy, we explore getting pregnant from porta potties, and we touch on “totally okay” incest situations. NEW EPISODES COMING SOON.

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Best of Year One: Part Two

Orlando

Isaac Fornarola, former LLiNYC cohost, recently said: “All I can think of are the victim’s last words in a text to his mother: ‘He’s in the bathroom with us.’

Is this not the summary of our year in this fight for equality?

Turns out cis straights and queers have the same nightmare. ‘He’s in the bathroom with us.’ The difference is that ours comes true.”

We at Livin’ and Lovin’ in NYC are heartbroken by the massacre at Pulse in Orlando. Our hearts go out to the victims’ loved ones, the LGBTQ+ community, the queer Puerto Rican community, the queer Latinx community, queer people of color, and the people of Orlando.

Orlando

Best of Year One – Part One

In celebration of our one year anniversary, we’ve put together our favorite moments so far. Part one: from our first six episodes, in which we introduce ourselves and tell you not to take our advice, the Victator discusses her homoflexible love for George Costanza, we discuss the SCOTUS ruling for marriage equality, our kpiss.fm station head tells the tale of tinderBNB, we describe a new way of thinking about cunnilingus, NuBritt recounts her sexy Italian adventure, Isaac describes his transition and no longer accepting what’s “fine,” and the Victator shamelessly hits on a guest. Part two will be up next week. NEW EPISODES COMING SOON.

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Best of Year One – Part One

Have an Android? LLiNYC Now on Google Play

Google finally got their shit together and now provides podcasts to Android devices directly from Google Play. If you’re like the Victator and are allergic to iPhones, find us on Play Music. For the rest of you, you can still find us on iTunes, Stitcher, Spreaker, and wherever podcasts are found.

Have an Android? LLiNYC Now on Google Play

Episode 12: Threesomes

Recorded live via Kpiss.fm, in which we introduce new permanent cohost, Gale Mayness, whom some of you may remember from our episode on cunnilingus, the Victator reveals that Justin Trudeau plays a very special role in her relationship with her lady friend, friend to Ms. Mayness and fellow group sex enthusiast Staggy Mulligan joins us as we discuss the ins and outs (heh) of threesomes, unicorn etiquette, when to lay your cards on the table, “totally okay” incest situations, and a new and innovative way to use a hotel room bible.

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Episode 12: Threesomes