Episode 19 – Election Debrief

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Otterpup joins us as we get uncharacteristically serious and imbue or sex podcast with political meaning. We do a post-inauguration debrief and talk about how the Victator got the wind knocked out of her, Gayle got frenzied, and Otterpup decided he’s not a centrist after all, while his parents stepped up guns-a-blazing to take a stand for gay rights, Gayle’s pessimism, if the Trump presidency is validating bigotry and shaking some people out of their comfortable belief in prograss, Also: Gayle and Otterpup come out as an immigrants, an unexpected uptick in Hong Kong listeners, and why we want to keep talking about butt-plug sizes and the finer points of gender identity despite it all.

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Episode 18 – Our Pussies

Recorded on a porch in the Lowcountry, in which NuBritt and the Victator come together again to discuss their vaginas, how femme is not equal to sub, why the size of your pussy and labia have nothing to do with how much sex you’ve had, NuBritt’s hermit ways and how she once broke a bed, moving in together on the first date, edging, that time the Victator got the orgasm yips, and most importantly: they both finally learn where pussy lubrication comes from.

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Episode 17 – Male Bisexuality

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in a more innocent time, before the election — in which Dusty and Max join as we talk about male bisexuality, if it’s more ok for ladies to be bi, if dicks rule everything, if men lose more privilege than women by coming out, Prince, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, and why hair metal was actually macho, how the AIDS epidemic put an end to speedos, man-boy love, ancient Greece, Berlin in the ‘30s, passing and not passing, if everything is RuPaul’s fault, and why dating apps are the place to be open about wanting to be shit on. Plus: Don’t forget to like us on Facebook.

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Episode 15 – When We Don’t Wanna Bang (It Happens)

Recorded not-so-live in Gale’s living room, in which Vintage Britt joins us as we discuss if there is a cultural disconnect when it comes to lesbians and the eggplant emoji, the Victator’s and Vintage Britt’s “D reset button”, chasing the ick, times we don’t want to have sex, why guy-on-guy porn is how Gale knows she’ll never be 100 percent lez, which is better for your sex life: freelancing or office work, which came first: the chicken or the D, what lady doesn’t like gangbang porn, Vintage Britt and her same sex lover’s epic celebrity fan fiction pursuits, and remember: don’t fuck Donald Trump!

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Episode 13: Cruising

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we’re joined by Lia, the founder of a nearly 1800 person strong online queer cruising group and Greta Narbo, sex party enthusiast and data wonk, as in the wake of the Pulse shooting in Orlando we discuss safer spaces and how — if at all — they can be maintained, what “queer” means when the number of groups under the umbrella seems to be forever growing (is the umbrella contextual?), how picking fights on social media is a great way to blow off steam, sex fantasies on the elliptical, solidarity vs. butthurt and how we all fuck up, plus Lia cruises our listeners. Remember: Don’t be the same kind of asshole twice!

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Best of Year One: Part Two

In celebration of our one year anniversary, we’ve put together our favorite moments so far. Part two: from our last six episodes, in which the Victator and Isaac discuss vulnerability in dating, transitioning, and life, Jax reveals the true meaning of Jaxism, Robbyn and Isaac talk about sex after body changes, the Victator and Jax consider how farting may equal intimacy, we explore getting pregnant from porta potties, and we touch on “totally okay” incest situations. NEW EPISODES COMING SOON.

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Orlando

Isaac Fornarola, former LLiNYC cohost, recently said: “All I can think of are the victim’s last words in a text to his mother: ‘He’s in the bathroom with us.’

Is this not the summary of our year in this fight for equality?

Turns out cis straights and queers have the same nightmare. ‘He’s in the bathroom with us.’ The difference is that ours comes true.”

We at Livin’ and Lovin’ in NYC are heartbroken by the massacre at Pulse in Orlando. Our hearts go out to the victims’ loved ones, the LGBTQ+ community, the queer Puerto Rican community, the queer Latinx community, queer people of color, and the people of Orlando.

Best of Year One – Part One

In celebration of our one year anniversary, we’ve put together our favorite moments so far. Part one: from our first six episodes, in which we introduce ourselves and tell you not to take our advice, the Victator discusses her homoflexible love for George Costanza, we discuss the SCOTUS ruling for marriage equality, our kpiss.fm station head tells the tale of tinderBNB, we describe a new way of thinking about cunnilingus, NuBritt recounts her sexy Italian adventure, Isaac describes his transition and no longer accepting what’s “fine,” and the Victator shamelessly hits on a guest. Part two will be up next week. NEW EPISODES COMING SOON.

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Have an Android? LLiNYC Now on Google Play

Google finally got their shit together and now provides podcasts to Android devices directly from Google Play. If you’re like the Victator and are allergic to iPhones, find us on Play Music. For the rest of you, you can still find us on iTunes, Stitcher, Spreaker, and wherever podcasts are found.

Episode 12: Threesomes

Recorded live via Kpiss.fm, in which we introduce new permanent cohost, Gale Mayness, whom some of you may remember from our episode on cunnilingus, the Victator reveals that Justin Trudeau plays a very special role in her relationship with her lady friend, friend to Ms. Mayness and fellow group sex enthusiast Staggy Mulligan joins us as we discuss the ins and outs (heh) of threesomes, unicorn etiquette, when to lay your cards on the table, “totally okay” incest situations, and a new and innovative way to use a hotel room bible.

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