Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which sexy people Jax and Isaac join us as we yell a lot and discuss butches and transmen and the lesbian milieu, Jax saving the Victator from bullies, Isaac being a good looking dude, all of our articles on Flux Weekly, how “Roey Thorpe is the man,” claims that butches are disappearing, hostility from some old guard lesbians about transitioning, how definitions of butchness are context dependent, litmus tests for masc/femme, having sex with people you aren’t attracted to, how Jax is the reason Victator is gay, making Barbies and Kens gay-make-out, the multiplicity of identifications, the experience of coming out as trans, the differences in learning about queerness while growing up in Chelsea vs. Upstate vs. the South, college experimentation, realizing that trans is an option–that life can be better than fine, generational and cultural shifts, identifying as fluid, the self-challenge of “if I were coming out now, what would be different?”, being a little girl who wanted to be a boy but who liked being a girl but who wanted to do all the things the boys did, the different factions in the LGBTQIA communities, how the LGB have benefited more from the support of the Ts than the Ts have benefited from LGBs, emphasizing difference to emphasize sameness, how comfortable or not comfortable our families are with us, middle aged dyke or American mom or German lady?, how gaydar doesn’t translate to other nations, butch bisexuals, how contextual definitions of masculinity and femininity change over time, how the Victator feels inside, being rigid about one’s identity or not so much, the shorthand convenience of identifying as a top or bottom, FLUXWEEKLY.COM, did we say that? Go to FLUXWEEKLY.COM.
Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which friend and sexy queer lady Gale Mayness joins us as we discuss eating the furry tuna taco, that time Key and Peele taught teenagers how to eat pussy, morning wood in film, Michael Fassbender’s dick, cumming in one’s sleep, sex ed in the South vs. NYC, how damn intimate it is to receive cunnilingus, ethical non-monogamy, how NuBritt and Gale have, um, GONE THERE, anxiety and orgasms and ego, the Victator victating on her dates’ faces, feedback during sex, Margaret Cho and manuals on eating pussy, the importance of the warm-up, playing the anatomical double-bass string, preferences for nipple stimulation as evidence of being related, the well-placed nose, oral sex algorithms and the importance of primes, pussy hair preferences, NuBritt’s Mediterranean beach tryst, pussy hair dreads, flying uterine lining, enemas: yes or no?, anal sex, santorum and NO SNEAKING IT IN.
Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which token-straight-dude Lil’ J joins us as we discuss our listeners in Ghana and the Midwest, sex with an ex, double dipping, keeping your numbers of down, Tyler Perry, relationship hos, our future exes at Mikey’s Hookup, Victator as philosopher king, using Tinder for a place to crash, more OkCupid etiquette, and the Chlamydia Collapse of 2009.
In which we discuss the SCOTUS ruling for marriage equality, PRIDE, middle America, Ruby Rose, more bi-shit, skinny white bitches, Caitlyn Jenner, etiquette for online dating, IRL dating, threesomes, pooping with Tinder, NuBritt’s inability to get a date with a woman, and Victator’s worst-date-ever (hint: HITLER).
In which we discuss Victator’s letter to Dan Savage and go on serious tangents about how to be a good ally, trans and cis preferences, the gender binary, being homoflexible, george castanza, bisexuality, garlic knots, the Kardashians, STDs, tops and bottoms, NuBritt’s article in Vice, and hoga.