Feminist shock jocks go off the rails and offend everyone they know while talking about sex, relationships, queerness, trans stuff, heteroshit, and general mayhem.

Livin’ and Lovin’ in NYC used to record and stream live on internet radio station kpiss.fm on the first Saturday of every month at 2 p.m. Eastern time (subject to change). Old episodes can be found on our main page, iTunes, Stitcher, and wherever you listen to podcasts.

Want to tell us we suck or that we’re awesome? Email the Victator at sluttyforalesbian@gmail.com or reach all of us via webform.


The Victator (creator, marketing queen, cohost) is an underemployed homoflexible lesbian, who was born and raised in New York City. She likes baseball and Guinness and believes that “your mom” is the best counterpoint to any argument. One morning she woke up to the realization that her vagina’s name is Georgia and she hasn’t looked back.

LJ Pemberton (née Moore) aka NuBritt (creator, executive producer, cohost) is a bisexual lady about town whom the Victator claims “has multiple secret lives.” The truth of this statement is not in dispute. She is suspicious of most things. Check out all her goings on at ljpemberton.com. On Twitter @ljabouttown.

Sarah Clyne Sundberg aka Gale Mayness (cohost) is the pinko queer of your dreams. She’s been a journalist and writer of various kinds since her last year of high school and enjoys running to unwind and training MMA for the consensual violence. If you’re curious about her work outside of this podcast check out sarahclynesundberg.com. On Twitter @msclynesundberg.

Isaac Fornarola (former cohost) is currently an enterprise editor for the USA Today Network’s Upstate New York region. He’s the founder and editor of the blog Flux Weekly. On Twitter @isaacforn.

16 thoughts on “ABOUT

  1. How about a videocast. It would be much more interesting to see you guys while listening to you. Also, as hetero I find the word “queer” offensive as a term for homosexuals. Why do you want to be thought of as “strange”? Isn’t that just perpetuating a negative image. Thanks

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    1. Hey, Geoffrey. We’re pretty comfortable in podcast form. Though I for one think we’re all hotties, I hate being in front of a camera. Regarding the use of “queer,” it’s been in mainstream use as an umbrella term for the LGB (sometimes T)+ community for some time. While historically it meant “strange,” it’s been reappropriated and celebrated!

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  2. O.K. queer it is. Enjoy. As for the camera, fight it as much as you want I know that eventually that’s where you guys will end up.


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